What's the big deal with sex? I just don't understand, and if anyone can explain what all the hype is about I would appreciate it.

If I were to believe even a quarter of what I read/hear, then it's the greatest thing since sliced cheese. Ha! Yeah, right. It's boring & repetitive and about as much fun as dropping a bowling ball repeatedly on my foot.

I mean, regardless of position or location it's just basically the same thing every time, with the bloke having all the fun. Why bother?

Well the response in favour of sex is obviously overwhelming. Looks like I had the right idea in the first place, it's just a waste of time.

Firstly you need to meet the right person. I spent 2 years having sex with random guys and the only enjoyment I got was the satisfaction that I could please a guy.Then I met my partner and he was the right guy. You need someone who takes the time to please you- puts you first. if he doesnt care how you enjoy sex then he's not worth sleeping with. Sex is fantastic. when we have sex its this huge spiritual connection- we fall more in love every time, and its so intense!