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Jo-Anne Baker, Therapist
Solve your bedroom issues with our sex and relationship therapist. Jo-Anne works from a holistic perspective drawing on her training in Psychology, Sociology, Eastern spirituality as well as her research in healthy life-style and ageing. Her business The Pleasure Spot was established in 1993 and was the first in Australia to cater to women and couples sexuality with products that are both fun and educational. Visit her site at www.pleasurespot.com.au.
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Question:
My boyfriend and I have been together over a year now and we have both decided we want a threesome. I am attracted to other woman but am a little nervous that I would become jealous if he gives the other woman too much attention, and im not too sure I would like the idea of him having intercourse with another woman. What are some common ground rules regarding this area? from Jasmine
Answer:
This is a difficult situation because one person is going to miss out and it will probable be you. I don’t know of many relationships where having a threesome ends in a good experience, because it bring up jealousy and often erodes any closeness that the couple have.
I feel this is about spicing up your sex life together, rather than letting a third person potentially break up your relationship, which often happens.
If you decide to go ahead it is not easy having ground rules as no matter what your intention might be before it happens when you are in the situation it changes.
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