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"im a guy too and so ticklish. 1 hand in the wrong place can really spoil the moment and i hate that ..."

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Question:

My boyfriend is REALLY ticklish. so much that even an accidental brush of his back sends him giggling. During sex I like to move around, but every time we try he gets so ticklish that im starting to wonder if it will make him finish unexpectedly. Any ideas? from Samantha

Answer:

The ticklish response is to do with his skin sensitivity and the amount of tension he feels in his body. If your touch is firmer then he won’t feel so ticklish. It is best to talk and experiment with him around touch to find out what he finds pleasurable. As far as him ejaculating quicker than he would like, it is best to ask him what his experience is, rather than jump to any conclusions.

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Comments (12)

• Posted 19 Jul 2008 by foofoo
  You guys?! its sex we're talking about,right?my tip is;surprise him.do weird stuff.get his blood pumping!
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• Posted 07 Dec 2008 by courtney
  i have the exact same problem with my bf he would giggle so much all the time, i hopwe tis advice workes thank you!
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• Posted 12 Dec 2008 by spoilt goddess
  i had that same prob about two years ago. i couldnt even run my hands down his sides on the outside of his clothes without him bursting out laughing and flinching. gave up in the end as it was as though he was frigid anyways.
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• Posted 06 Mar 2009 by same same
  I had the same problem with my bf. Some of it was due to being nervous so just make him comfortable and relaxed around you before starting any foreplay. Also, try hugging him more and touching him where he is ticklish in a non sexual manner when you don't want sex - it tends to numb the ticklishness. If you enjoy his company its worth the short wait! Good luck!
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• Posted 06 Mar 2009 by same same
  I had the same problem with my bf. Some of it was due to being nervous so just make him comfortable and relaxed around you before starting any foreplay. Also, try hugging him more and touching him where he is ticklish in a non sexual manner when you don't want sex - it tends to numb the ticklishness. If you enjoy his company its worth the short wait! Good luck!
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